When children are born, parents will have more responsibilities and obligations. Whether it's eating, drinking, or educating, it's enough to give new parents new headaches. Moreover, when children are ignorant, they often make mistakes and give their parents endless troubles.
When a child has made a mistake, parents do need some measures to punish their children, but if they do it, corporal punishment will do harm to the child's physical and mental health. How exactly is it right to punish a child?
Several correct methods for punishing children
How many correct ways to punish children?
1. housekeeping
This is a very good punishment, not only can let the child realize his mistake, but also can train his ability to take care of himself, the most exciting is that adults will be more relaxed. Make sure you do something easy for your child, such as folding clothes, sweeping the floor, cleaning the cabinet and so on.
2. let children choose
At ordinary times, let the child write some punishment and collect it in a bottle. When mothers need to punish their children, let him draw a note from the bottle and let him choose the punishment, so that the child will identify and accept.
3. go out and walk the dog
If a child does something wrong, try to get him out of the door and calm him down for a while. But it's not really going out, but changing it for him to rethink. For example, let the children take the pet out, sneak two laps. Of course, if the family does not have pets, then let the children run laps in the community, as a punishment.
Attention: after the child goes out, you must secretly follow behind, guaranteed the child's security.
4. go to bed early
"Because you made a mistake today, so the time spent playing tonight is shortened and you go to bed 20 minutes earlier."!" In this way, it is also possible to make the child aware of his mistakes peacefully. By the second day, when the child is doing well, he can be encouraged to increase his playtime appropriately.
5. repeat writing
If a child's work is not done or always careless and wrong, then he can be punished by repeated practice writing. Note that this is not a simple punishment, it is a practice process, so that he repeated his writing process, familiar with and recognize the wrong place in their work.
Several correct methods for punishing children
Two, corporal punishment of children's harm
1. psychological problems
If you are often subjected to physical and moral punishment, then the child will have serious psychological problems. For example, they may become bored with the world, feel that life is meaningless, or they may rebel against the society, do something antisocial, and so on.
2. affect intelligence
Children who have been subjected to violent education for a long time will have considerable influence on their intelligence quotient. This is because in this environment for a long time, the child's character will become withdrawn, do not love the statement, he can not show their talents, the corresponding intelligence will not be promoted.
3. parent-child relationship
This is the most obvious change, and you will find that your child will be farther and farther away from you and become reluctant to talk to you, and do not want to share the kindergarten or school at home. Children are not grateful to you when they are adults, but there is no small resentment.
4. decline in grades
Children's exam results are not good, just a dozen, feel that such children are afraid of playing, will seriously study. Although this approach can make children's performance a little improvement, but will soon decline, so the corporal punishment is not a permanent solution.
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